Hey
@srexy , I have a few suggestions.
Right off the bat
Mr Steele on youtube has a new series out about how to start flying. So far I agree with him.
Another youtube personality is Josh Bardwell, and he’s got a
FPV shopping list you can check out. It’s a little outdated now, the industry changes really fast
Personally, I recommend that you start with a micro class drone, that’s how I started. It’s easier to learn, and you can fly it inside so it doesn’t have to be a whole production. When you’re learning to fly FPV you’re going to crash a lot, it’s part of the learning curve. Having a micro you can crash around the house without breaking, speeds the process up, and crashing is part of the thrill! Plus it rains a lot in Seattle (I'm from Portland) so getting your fix indoors could be the ticket.
We’re talking about a 1s brushless “whoop” class drone, and the market has more great options in this category than ever before. The Tinyhawk is the darling right now so it might be hard to find, the Mobula 7 is the other monster on the market. Beta FPV makes a nice little 75 class. They're all around $100 - $120
I recommend a FrSky controller, but most of the big brands are good. The Taranis QX7 is a good choice ($120). The controller is universal, so you can keep it when you grow into a bigger drone.
I still use the cheapest goggles on the market. Eachine EV800D ($90). They’re a box goggle, and the screen can slide off and be used separately. You’re going to need two sets; it’s very difficult to fly line of sight while someone else wears the goggles. To get the full effect you’ll both need a set. These are even more universal than the controller though. While not all controllers and receivers use the same protocol, all video transmitters and goggles are compatible (in the 5.8ghz range)
If you have zero interest in flying indoors, and you have zero interest in building your own rig, than the Blade Torrent 110 is a good starter. ($130)
IMHO the best way to get into the hobby is pull the trigger on the goggles, controller and a micro to learn on, then start planning your outdoor build (another $250 -$300). Putting it together could also be a fun thing you guys can do together, and even with the price of the few tools you’ll need, making it yourself is going to be cheaper, and the most satisfying in the long run. That way when when you crash it you can fix it yourself and it’s an adventure, not a disaster
I used to be a one on one aid in a fully self contained classroom, I have a special place in my heart for what you're doing. If you're serious about getting into the hobby, I'd love to help you and your son have a good experience with it.
If you want please PM me, I'll give you my email and phone number.